Poor Moms Called Uncivilized

Hi, there! It's still early in the morning but something comes up in my head and it kinds of disturbing me so I have to let it out. It's actually just a comment, but everytime I saw things related to it, I think about it. 

Several days ago, my husband woke up late and missed his bus to work. He decided to take the train. At that time, I scrolled down my instagram feeds and story and found my friend was online showing the situation in the train station which was crowded. 

I dm-ed her, being curious whether she knew the common situation in the station where my husband took the train. She didn't know but she said something I have been thinking until now. 

"The train in the weekdays are crowded, but it's still okay. Workers are civilized. It's different with the weekends where there are a lot of moms or peoples from nowhere taking their children to go around or to go shopping. They're sometimes unmannered, pushing and elbowing other passengers."

Well, as a mom who sometimes take my children to try public transportation like train and bus, I feel annoyed hearing that kind of comment although it can be true. Not 100% true but some people (not only moms, yet people in general) are uncivilized like that. What is true is I am 100% civilized. Hahahaha. Just kidding. But I definitely know how to act in public transportation. 

I'm not mad with my friend, I just want to make it clear that I'm not like that. So please don't say things like that. You may hurt someone's heart or maybe make somebody mind stuck with it, just like me. Hehehe.

Alright then, I think my heart is light now that I write about this. See you! 🤗 #wdykls

Hey, I'm Back!

Oh my God, finally I can log into this account! I tried so many times. I just couldn't remember what it was . Yet here I am. Finally I can get in. I kinda feel like getting back writing, but I dont know if I can do it regularly. 

Well, life has changed. A lot. I am a wife now, a mother too, of two sons to be exact. I'm a full housewife, no longer working. I am living a simple life now. Nothing big, nothing wow, but I'm so happy. We're so happy. 

If you notice, my husband is the boyfriend I always mention in this blog. We've been together for almost 12 years, and been married for about 7 years. I hope we last forever til death tear us apart, and meet again in Jannah. Ameen.

Speaking of living a simple life, it's funny how life changes me. I'm so grateful that my husband has a good job in aviation. He's in a good position too.

I've been with him since he was not as good as now. At that time everything was so limited. To make it worked, I learned to cook, to clean, to do everything that could help the house run normally. We barely buy clothes, shoes, and everything we think we didnt need to buy. And the habits are still done until now, when the thing gets better and better. Hehe. It's a good thing though. That's how we appreciate the money, and everything we have.

By the way, it's already late at night. I have to get my kids to bed. It's nice to go back. See you soon. ❤ #wdykls